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This skill helps you master scaling by learning to give away your current role and tackle bigger, messier challenges.
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name: Give Away Your Legos
description: In scaling companies, once you master a role you must hand it off and move to a bigger, messier challenge. Holding on buries you; giving away allows you to tackle bigger challenges.
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# Give Away Your Legos
> "If you really want to take advantage, both learning to give away what you've gotten good at and move on to the next shiny pile of Legos." — Molly Graham
## What It Is
In scaling companies, jobs are like piles of Legos. Once you build a tower (master a role), you must **give it to someone else** and move on to a bigger, messier pile. Holding onto your old role buries you; giving it away allows you to tackle bigger challenges.
## When To Use
- Company is **doubling in size**
- Feeling **territorial** about a new hire taking responsibilities
- Sensing **career stagnation** despite company growth
- Need to evaluate if you're **scaling with the company**
## Core Principles
### 1. Scale Yourself
You must grow as fast as the company or you become obsolete.
### 2. Embrace the New Mess
Moving to a new, undefined problem is a **promotion**, not a demotion.
### 3. Manage "Bob"
Externalize your ego/fear (name it "Bob"). Wait 2 weeks before acting on negative emotions about change.
## The Mental Model
```
CAREER PROGRESSION IN HYPERGROWTH:
Year 1: Build a house 🏠
→ Master the role
Year 2: Give away the house
→ Hire someone to own it
→ Move to building a neighborhood 🏘️
Year 3: Give away the neighborhood
→ Move to building a city 🌆
```
## How To Apply
```
STEP 1: Identify Your "Tower"
└── What are you really good at now?
└── What would a new hire do if they had your job?
STEP 2: Hire Your Replacement
└── Recruit someone who can own this
└── Train them to be better than you at it
STEP 3: Find the Next Mess
└── What's broken that no one owns?
└── What would you do if you were "re-hired" today?
STEP 4: Wait 2 Weeks Before Complaining
└── Notice the "Bob" voice of ego
└── Let emotions settle before judging
```
## Common Mistakes
❌ Believing you are the **only person** who can do a specific task
❌ Viewing handover as a **loss of status**
❌ Staying in a comfortable role while the company outgrows you
## Real-World Example
At Facebook, Graham had to re-hire herself every 3 weeks, eventually moving from HR to Mobile—a role she was unqualified for but learned by diving into the mess.
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*Source: Molly Graham, Lenny's Podcast*
This skill frames career growth in hypergrowth companies as a continuous handoff: once you master a role (your pile of Legos), hire or hand it off and move to a bigger, messier problem. It helps people avoid being buried by work they already own and instead scale themselves with the company. The goal is deliberate progression—build, give away, and tackle the next challenge.
The approach inspects your current responsibilities, identifies what you can realistically hand off, and creates a plan to recruit and train a replacement. It then directs your energy toward unowned, high-impact problems while building a simple habit to delay reactive complaints for two weeks. The method balances recruiting, coaching, and intentional search for the next messy opportunity.
Is giving away my role a demotion?
No. It’s a promotion in scope: you trade a mastered operational role for higher-leverage, messier problems that accelerate your growth.
What if no one can do my job as well?
Recruit and train for ownership, not mimicry. Expect the replacement to do some things differently and better; that’s the point.