demand-side-buying-timeline skill

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name: Demand-Side Buying Timeline
description: A chronological model of the buying process from the customer's perspective—First Thought, Passive Looking, Active Looking, Deciding, First Use, Ongoing Use. Align sales to customer psychology, not your funnel.
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# The Demand-Side Buying Timeline

> "Instead of trying to base the sales process on how we want to sell, we need to actually design the sales process on how they want to buy." — Bob Moesta

## What It Is

A chronological model of **the buying process from the customer's perspective**, dividing the journey into distinct psychological phases that require different support—fundamentally different from a company's sales funnel.

## When To Use

- Designing **sales funnels**
- Creating **content marketing** strategies
- Structuring **product demos**
- When sales cycle feels **too long** or conversion is low

## The Timeline

```
CUSTOMER BUYING JOURNEY:

1. FIRST THOUGHT
   └── Struggling moment triggers awareness
   └── "Something isn't working..."

2. PASSIVE LOOKING (Problem Aware)
   └── Casually collecting information
   └── NOT ready to buy or demo
   └── Needs: Education, awareness content

3. ACTIVE LOOKING (Solution Aware)
   └── Comparing alternatives
   └── Researching specific features
   └── Needs: Comparison content, case studies

4. DECIDING (Trade-offs)
   └── Weighing options
   └── Needs help with final choice
   └── Needs: Decision frameworks, consultative selling

5. FIRST USE
   └── Onboarding, setup
   └── Needs: Activation support

6. ONGOING USE
   └── Retention, expansion
   └── Needs: Success content, upsell paths
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## How To Apply

```
STEP 1: Diagnose Customer Phase
└── Where is this lead in their journey?
└── Are they passive looking or actively comparing?

STEP 2: Match Your Response
└── Passive Looking → Send educational content, NOT demo
└── Active Looking → Offer comparison materials
└── Deciding → Consultative conversation

STEP 3: Design Phase-Specific Demos
└── Demo 1: Story/Context (for early-phase)
└── Demo 2: Alternatives (for mid-phase)
└── Demo 3: Trade-offs (for late-phase)

STEP 4: Don't Skip Phases
└── Forcing close on passive looker = lost deal
└── Meet them where they are
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## Common Mistakes

❌ Treating all leads the **same** regardless of phase

❌ Forcing a **closing demo** on someone who is only "passive looking"

❌ Assuming sales is about **convincing** rather than **enabling**

## Real-World Example

Autobooks split their single demo into three different types based on the buyer's phase (Story/Context, Alternatives, Choices/Trade-offs), which cut the sales cycle in half and increased conversion by 4x.

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*Source: Bob Moesta, Co-creator of Jobs-to-be-Done, Lenny's Podcast*