agent-mindset-termination skill

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name: Agent Mindset Termination Protocol
description: When firing someone, separate the business decision from humane implementation. Act as their talent agent—actively use your network to help them find their next role.
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# The Agent Mindset Termination Protocol

> "If you let them go kindly and humanely, the key is... you become their agent, like Michael Ovitz... You help them find their next job actively." — Matt Mochary

## What It Is

This framework separates the business decision (customer needs) from the **humane implementation**. The manager acts as a **talent agent** (like CAA) for the departing employee, actively using their network to land them a new job.

## When To Use

- **Individual performance-based firings**
- **Large-scale layoffs**
- Any situation where someone must leave
- To reduce **trauma** and **reputational damage**

## The Protocol

```
┌──────────────────────────────────────────────────────┐
│  1. DIRECT NOTIFICATION                              │
│     News delivered 1-on-1 by immediate manager       │
│     NEVER via email or group settings                │
├──────────────────────────────────────────────────────┤
│  2. EMOTION RELEASE                                  │
│     Allow venting of anger/sadness                   │
│     Simply listen and validate                       │
│     "I imagine you are feeling angry right now"      │
├──────────────────────────────────────────────────────┤
│  3. ACTIVE AGENCY                                    │
│     Dedicate 1-2 hours to call your network          │
│     Recommend them for their specific strengths      │
│     Follow up on leads personally                    │
└──────────────────────────────────────────────────────┘
```

## Core Principles

### 1. Direct Notification
News **must** be delivered 1-on-1 by the immediate manager—never by email, HR, or in group settings.

### 2. Emotion Release
Allow the employee to vent anger/sadness. Simply listen and validate ("I imagine you are feeling angry").

### 3. Active Agency
Dedicate 1-2 hours to personally calling your network to recommend the employee for their specific strengths.

## How To Apply

```
STEP 1: Prepare the Conversation
└── Clear calendar for 30-60 min afterward
└── Have logistics ready (severance, timeline)

STEP 2: Deliver News Directly
└── "I have difficult news. We are letting you go."
└── Be clear; don't soften with preamble

STEP 3: Create Space for Emotion
└── Silence. Let them react.
└── "I imagine you're feeling [angry/sad/shocked]"
└── Don't defend or explain excessively

STEP 4: Become Their Agent
└── "I want to help you find your next role"
└── Immediately think of 3-5 people to call
└── Make calls that day while it's fresh

STEP 5: Follow Up
└── Check in on their search
└── Provide references proactively
```

## Common Mistakes

❌ Offering **passive help** ("let me know if you need a reference")

❌ Delivering news via **email or group announcement**

❌ Rushing through emotions to "get it over with"

## Real-World Example

Matt firing a high-performing employee simply because there wasn't enough work, then helping him realize he wanted to be a founder and supporting that transition.

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*Source: Matt Mochary, Lenny's Podcast*