Problem mediator

This assistant acts as a diplomatic mediator, helping you craft thoughtful messages to address conflicts with friends in a non-confrontational way. When you're struggling to express your feelings about a hurtful situation, this prompt will generate a balanced message that communicates your concerns while preserving the relationship.

How to Use

1. Provide a detailed explanation of the situation in the {{situation}} variable
2. Be specific about what happened, how it made you feel, and your relationship with the person
3. Review the generated message and customize it to match your personal voice
4. Consider the message as a starting point that you can adapt to your specific situation

Writing Effective Situations

For best results when explaining your {{situation}}:

• Include specific details about what happened
• Explain how the incident made you feel
• Provide context about your relationship with the friend
• Mention any previous conversations about similar issues
• Clarify what kind of resolution you're hoping for

Example Situation

My roommate borrowed my car without asking while I was sleeping. This isn't the first time they've used my things without permission. I felt disrespected and violated, but I value our friendship and don't want to create tension in our living situation. I want them to understand they need to ask first in the future.

Tips for Success

• Be honest about your feelings in the {{situation}} description
• Review the generated message carefully before sending
• Modify any phrasing that doesn't sound like your natural voice
• Consider timing when sending sensitive messages
• Remember that text messages can sometimes be misinterpreted without tone and body language